“I want what’s best for my baby.” When your child’s future is in your hands

When you’re facing an unplanned pregnancy, but can’t raise a baby right now, it’s natural to feel overwhelmed and uncertain. You may be considering whether it’s possible to parent your child, and you may be researching adoption in Florida. Right now, the best thing to focus on is your heart telling you, “I want what’s best for my baby.” Centering this thought as your guiding light will lead you to the best decision for you and your child. We are here to help you find your way.

Our Florida adoption agency’s experienced team can help you navigate this time, providing the support and information you may need as you make the important decisions ahead. Our counselors will never pressure you to choose one path over another. Instead, we will help you learn about all of your options, including both parenting and adoption, so that you can choose the path that feels right to you.

What do I do when I can’t raise a baby right now, but I want what’s best for my baby?

The first piece of advice we have for you is to take your time, gather information, and not jump quickly into a decision. You may have decided that you can’t raise a baby right now, or you may still be considering whether parenting is possible. Getting the facts about both options is the key to making a decision you will be at peace with.

Our counselors can help you fully understand all aspects of both parenting and adoption, so that you can make informed choices. Here are some important considerations that we can help you evaluate.

• Your support system. Is the baby’s father in the picture, and is he on board with helping to raise your child? Do you have family members who are willing and able to assist you, if you need help?
• Your financial situation. Can you access prenatal care to ensure a healthy pregnancy? Do you have insurance or funds to cover labor and delivery? Once the baby arrives, will you need to work to provide for yourself and your child, and if so, can you afford childcare?
• Your current living situation.  Do you consider your lifestyle to be stable right now? Do you have a safe, secure home in which to raise a child? Will you have the time and commitment to consistently provide stability, love and security for your child throughout the years ahead?
• Opportunities you want for yourself and your baby. Are you committed to achieving your personal goals with a baby in your life, or are you willing to delay your plans if necessary to put your child’s needs first? What kind of life and opportunities do you want your child to have, and will you be able to provide that for them?

Taking the time to honestly and realistically think through your answers to these questions is a good place to start when you’re worried that you can’t raise a baby right now. As you think through your options, it is wise to focus on “I want what’s best for my baby,” as placing your child’s needs first will lead you to the right decision.

You may find that parenting is possible for you, or you may decide that making an adoption plan is best for everyone involved. The only person who can make these decisions is you, and we are here to give you the support you need as you consider and learn about all of your options.

Where can I find information about adoption?

We understand that you may have many questions and concerns as you make plans for the days and months ahead. Our experienced counselors are here to help as you are researching adoption in Florida, and we can also provide the facts about what you can expect if you choose parenting as a path forward. Regardless of what you decide to do, you will have our full support and respect, as we know that you will choose the path that is right for you and your baby.

Contact us to speak with a counselor who can connect you with resources and information to help you plan your next steps. With your idea of “I want what’s best for my baby” at the center of your journey, we are here to help and support you.